
The other day I heard someone say that she wanted to have a Mary Christmas rather than a Martha Christmas. That really stuck with me. Yes, that's what I want too - a "Mary" Christmas. As I pondered it the day I heard it, I wondered which Mary & Martha they were originally talking about. To be honest, I realized that the natural comparison was Mary & Martha - the sisters in the Bible. But, to me, I first thought of Mary, Jesus' mother, & Martha Stewart! :) Either comparison was just what I needed to hear.
I love Mary & Martha in the Bible - I want to be Mary but find myself so often distracted like Martha. Martha's heart was right - she invited Jesus into her home and was doing all this work to serve Him; however, her heart was distracted by the work. (A funny side story. When my oldest two were younger, I passed a church board that said something about Mary & Martha. I wasn't sure if the girls had heard of them or not, so I told them the story as we drove. As I told about Martha being stressed out trying to get everything done, I heard a little voice pipe up from the back, "Mommy, that sounds like you!" I had to tell her I was just thinking the same thing.) :)
I also love the comparison of Mary, Jesus' mother, and Martha Stewart. Nothing against Martha personally. To me though, it just spoke in my mind the differences of focusing on Jesus - whose birth is Christmas - and all the busy, fun Christmasy things we can do to "make this Christmas wonderful."
I, for one, needed the reminder to slow down and get my focus on Jesus. This doesn't mean idleness, simply not getting distracted.
As you can probably tell, this month has been busy and I was extremely anxious earlier this week. It's all good things, but I've been distracted. Not the fault of the activities, just the fault of my focus.
Here's some of what's been going on with us (and why my posts aren't very regular). :)
The girls had an all day speech marathon in a city 1 1/2 hours away the beginning of the month. It went well and they had a great time.
That weekend we cut down our Christmas tree. (A family tradition that's treasured.) We also got to enjoy a quick visit with my brother and his family.

That afternoon the oldest had a puppet team performance and the oldest two were in the local Christmas parade, which we all attended and enjoyed.
That night, we came home and decorated the tree.
The following day, we enjoyed the oldest three's Christmas piano recital.
The following week we also enjoyed attending a Christmas play in another city (1 1/2 hours away).
The girls are participating in a local Christmas musical. It's wonderful - such a Christ honoring, original production! (It's by a very talented young woman who's written, directed, choreographed, and taught all the dances.) The older three have parts in the play and the youngest is dancing to a song in the play. It's wonderful. They've enjoyed the practices, performing the songs and reading Scripture at a local nursing home, and are enjoying the performances this weekend.
We enjoyed a wonderful time at missionary geography club learning about how Christmas is celebrated in 5 different countries and enjoying treats from each of those countries.
We also snuck in a camping weekend at an area about 3 hours away with wonderful Christmas activities. It was cold but lots of fun!
I've grown up using an advent wreath this time of year. It's such a special part of advent - looking forward to celebrating Christ's birth in Bethlehem and looking forward to His return. It's a tradition that we've continued with our children. This year, thanks to recommendations from a couple homeschool mom's I know, we've added Jotham's Journey. 
It's wonderful and leaves us hanging on the edge of our seats. (The kids often beg to read the next night's portion, but we've stuck to our grounds and not read ahead - even though I'm tempted.) It's kept us faithful in our advent devotions. (To be honest, we normally miss at least one Sunday of the advent wreath - but not this year!) :) The story is a bit intense for little ones, but we are loving it!
Wishing you a "Mary" Christmas and that you will enjoy this wonderful time of year and find yourself drawn to Christ and focused on Him, thankful for His coming & His sacrifice for our salvation, and looking forward to His return!